More Relaxed, More Effective
Learn to manage what drains you and your team, so you can focus on what truly matters to you
Join Capable LifeMore Relaxed, More Effective
Learn to manage what drains you and your team, so you can focus on what truly matters to you
Join Capable LifeOur Candles and Journals have arrived!


When the dynamics are costing too much,
we can help
When the dynamics are costing
too much, we can help
Locate contagious anxiety, relieve internal pressure, and dissolve stuck patterns
so you can thrive in the midst of it all
Two Powerful Questions:
What Drives You?
What Drives You Nuts?
You serve because
you want to make a difference.
You don’t mind sacrificing for the cause.
You don’t mind the hard.
But the internal pressure, the struggle to relax, the relational tension, the difficulty behaviors of others…
that is where we come in.
We equip you with skills and tools
to manage internal pressures and triggers. We show you how to manage relational dynamics. Then we help you do the same for your people.
We give you your first love back.
Your passion back.
‘The reason I got into this before all the relational junk got in the way’
Two Powerful Questions:
What Drives You? What Drives You Nuts?
You serve because you want to make a difference.
You don’t mind sacrificing for the cause.
You don’t mind the hard.
But the internal pressure, the struggle to relax, the relational tension,
the difficult behaviors of others…
that is where we come in.
We equip you with skills and tools to manage internal pressures and triggers.
We show you how to manage relational dynamics.
Then we help you do the same for your people.
We give you your first love back. Your passion back.
‘The reason I got into this before all the relational junk got in the way’
How We Can Help:



Imagine Leading with Peace and Purpose Again
- You respond instead of react
- You feel confident, not drained
- Your team is healthier, your impact is greater
- You enjoy the mission again
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What is Capable Life About?
Meet Steve
Steve Cuss spent 20+ years leading churches and training mission-driven leaders. He created Capable Life to help you stay grounded in anxious moments and lead with courage and peace
More About SteveWhat Kind of Results Can You Expect?
- Pinpoint who is generating anxiety and who is carrying it.
Help everyone take responsibility.
- Break long standing habits and patterns that wear everyone down.
- Manage your own false needs, triggers, and inner critic that cost you too much.
- Train your body to believe what your head believes and relax into God’s presence.
- Deep connection and presence in the most broken and intense situations.
- Cultivate life-giving habits, increase your laughter and gratitude quotient, get your vocational joy back.
What is the Capable Life Community?
The Capable Life Community is a guided space created by Steve and Lisa Cuss, where you learn clinical, biblical, and practical skills for managing anxiety, pressure, and relational dynamics—at a human-sized pace.
How It Works
Capable Life includes clear, linear learning paths that equip you with core, transferable skills you can use immediately.
- Each course is made up of brief videos (10–15 minutes) designed to fit into real life
- You’ll learn how to notice, name, and diffuse reactivity patterns in yourself and in the people you lead
- Courses include guided journals, milestones to track progress, and clear PDF summaries with key action points
Ongoing Support (Without Pressure)
You’re not meant to do this alone—or all at once.
- Live Zooms led by Steve and Lisa Cuss, along with trained coaches and facilitators
- Twice-monthly Q&A Zooms with a coach
- A weekly member-only reflection, including personal updates from Steve
- A private discussion forum to ask questions and connect with others (no social media required)
Come live when you can. Watch replays when you can’t.
Tools to Help You Apply What You’re Learning
Beyond the core courses, you’ll have access to:
- A growing library of application videos, masterclasses, and practical teachings
- An AI tool trained exclusively on Capable Life content that helps you search, reflect, and apply the tools—including timestamped search across the video library
- A global community of leaders you can engage with through Zooms or the forum
Everything is designed to help you practice with less reactivity and greater presence in real life.
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