More Relaxed, More Effective
Learn to manage what drains you
and your team, so you can focus on
what truly matters to you
When the dynamics are costing too much, we can help
Locate contagious anxiety, relieve internal pressure, and dissolve stuck patterns so you can thrive in the midst of it all
Two Powerful Questions:
What Drives You? What Drives You Nuts?
You serve because you want to make a difference.
You don’t mind sacrificing for the cause.
You don’t mind the hard.
But the internal pressure, the struggle to relax, the relational tension,
the difficult behaviors of others…
that is where we come in.
We equip you with skills and tools to manage internal pressures and triggers.
We show you how to manage relational dynamics.
Then we help you do the same for your people.
We give you your first love back. Your passion back.
‘The reason I got into this before all the relational junk got in the way’
How We Can Help
Imagine Leading with Peace and Purpose Again
- You respond instead of react
- You feel confident, not drained
- Your team is healthier, your impact is greater
- You enjoy the mission again
Trusted by 70,000+ Leaders In 41+ Countries
Capable Life is fundamentally transforming my approach to ministry and to myself. It has helped me notice what’s going on inside of me, tune in to God’s presence with me, identify and turn from false beliefs within me, and actually be present for others—the very essence of my calling. I am a much better pastor because of Steve and his team. I highly recommend you join Capable Life!Matthew Hoskinson
The Capable Life community has been a great addition to my support system. I look forward to the monthly Zoom meetings, masterclasses, and seeing new video modules pop up in my feed. The greatest asset has been the ability to name the relational dynamics I am facing. This all has added up to a less anxious presence (at least internally).Ryan Wood
This experience has been life-changing for me! It’s so applicable and speaks right to my heart. I still have so much to learn and I cannot wait!Amber B
Our staff had an overwhelmingly positive response because Steve shares his own stories, he makes it fun and Steve helps us process the concepts – helping us name sources of anxiety and ways we can identify and manage it.Marvin Williams
Capable Life is an accessible and practical approach to understanding life and leadership through the lens of family systems. Applying its principles in relationships at home and work will lead to less conflict, healthier relationships, and deeper satisfaction. It has especially helped me lead and manage my organization more effectively in this season of COVID.Jim Johnson
This content is gold. I go back to the modules again and again — and glean new insights each time. It helps me be less anxious and more present to my coaching clients.Sylvia Lawrence
Capable Life has helped me experience the life-changing power of the Gospel in ways that I had previously lead others to sing about (as a worship pastor) but didn’t always experience personally. The tools and training available have helped me apply God’s Word in my life and it’s been transformative. I live day-to-day closer to Jesus, and in more of His freedom. The result has been more ministry effectiveness but also more life-giving refreshment in Jesus.James Parker
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Meet Steve
Steve Cuss spent 20+ years leading churches and training mission-driven leaders. He created Capable Life to help you stay grounded in anxious moments and lead with courage and peace
What Kind of Results Can You Expect?
- Pinpoint who is generating anxiety and who is carrying it. Help everyone take responsibility.
- Break long standing habits and patterns that wear everyone down.
- Manage your own false needs, triggers, and inner critic that cost you too much.
- Train your body to believe what your head believes and relax into God’s presence.
- Deep connection and presence in the most broken and intense situations.
- Cultivate life-giving habits, increase your laughter and gratitude quotient, get your vocational joy back.
What is the Capable Life Community?
The Capable Life Community is a guided space created by Steve and Lisa Cuss, where you learn clinical, biblical, and practical skills for managing anxiety, pressure, and relational dynamics—at a human-sized pace.
How It Works
Capable Life includes clear, linear learning paths that equip you with core, transferable skills you can use immediately.
- Each course is made up of brief videos (10–15 minutes) designed to fit into real life
- You’ll learn how to notice, name, and diffuse reactivity patterns in yourself and in the people you lead
- Courses include guided journals, milestones to track progress, and clear PDF summaries with key action points
Ongoing Support (Without Pressure)
You’re not meant to do this alone—or all at once.
- Twice-monthly Q&A Zooms with Steve, Lisa, and Jimmy
- A weekly member-only reflection, including personal updates from Steve
- A private discussion forum to ask questions and connect with others (no social media required)
Tools to Help You Apply What You’re Learning
Beyond the core courses, you’ll have access to:
- A growing library of application videos, masterclasses, and practical teachings
- An AI tool trained exclusively on Capable Life content that helps you search, reflect, and apply the tools—including timestamped search across the video library
- A global community of leaders you can engage with through Zooms or the forum
Everything is designed to help you practice with less reactivity and greater presence in real life.
Frequently Asked Questions
How much time does this take?
Some of our members are very active - they watch a lot of our courses and join all our zooms. They would dedicated 30 - 90 mins per week on average.
Most of our members use us as a reference library with available coaching. They sort of pull us off the shelf when they need us. They either watch a video, use our AI to research or join an upcoming zoom to get help with a case.
A few times per year, we encourage members to go through a course together and we offer weekly zooms during those times. It is a lot of fun, and very beneficial, to all be working the same skills together. These runs usually last 4 - 6 weeks and include a weekly zoom with Steve, Lisa, Jimmy or one of our coaches.
Do I have to participate in all the zooms?
Zooms are optional. We record our zooms that lead people through the courses. We do not record our Q&A zooms to maintain privacy and discretion for our members.
I hate memberships that remove content when I cancel. Can I keep the content?
Anyone who joins for a year or more keeps access to their courses after they’ve cancelled.
I don’t think I can commit for a year. Is this for me?
We do not expect people to engage every week. We run Capable Life in seasons where we offer more engagement through the year. Most of our community use Capable Life as self paced learning and they join a zoom when they are stuck, or need help or want to dig in for a few weeks. We have priced a year’s access to be more affordable than 2 coaching sessions. In the year we offer 30+ zoom opportunities.
When are the zooms?
For new members going through the level 1 course, we zoom Friday mornings at 9am Mountain time. For Q&A zooms and other levels, we zoom at various days and times to provide opportunities for our global members in all time zones. Your member dashboard will have all zooms posted.
What theory is Capable Life based on?
Our skills are primarily based on: family systems theory, cybernetics, attachment theory, polyvagal theory, internal family systems/parts of self and trauma healing.
Is it Biblical?
Yes.
As a pastor, Steve has been obsessed with the questions how do people actually grow and why do Christians struggle to experience the peace, freedom and love of Christ for decades.
A lightbulb went on for him when he realized that Jesus of Nazareth and your typical therapist both want you to experience peace, freedom and love. He began to more intentionally study psychological transformation theories and he intentionally sifted them through the Gospel of Jesus. Steve has a master’s degree in theology.
Is this therapy, or does it replace therapy?
Many of our members have expressed that they have had deep breakthrough through our courses that they could not get in therapy. But this is not therapy and we do not recommend replacing therapy with Capable Life. We do not diagnose or treat mental health conditions.
Can I share these materials with others?
This material is the intellectual property of Capable Life and is provided for individual use only. No part of this publication may be reproduced, distributed, shared, sold, or transmitted in any form or by any means—electronic or mechanical—without prior written permission from Capable Life, except for brief quotations for personal or educational use with proper attribution.
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This material is the intellectual property of Capable Life and is provided for individual use only. No part of this publication may be reproduced, distributed, shared, sold, or transmitted in any form or by any means—electronic or mechanical—without prior written permission from Capable Life, except for brief quotations for personal or educational use with proper attribution.
More Relaxed, More Effective
Learn to manage what drains you and your team, so you can focus on what truly matters to you
Join Capable LifeMore Relaxed, More Effective
Learn to manage what drains you and your team, so you can focus on what truly matters to you
Join Capable LifeOur Candles and Journals have arrived!
When the dynamics are costing too much,
we can help
When the dynamics are costing
too much, we can help
Locate contagious anxiety, relieve internal pressure, and dissolve stuck patterns
so you can thrive in the midst of it all
Two Powerful Questions:
What Drives You?
What Drives You Nuts?
You serve because
you want to make a difference.
You don’t mind sacrificing for the cause.
You don’t mind the hard.
But the internal pressure, the struggle to relax, the relational tension, the difficulty behaviors of others…
that is where we come in.
We equip you with skills and tools
to manage internal pressures and triggers. We show you how to manage relational dynamics. Then we help you do the same for your people.
We give you your first love back.
Your passion back.
‘The reason I got into this before all the relational junk got in the way’
Two Powerful Questions:
What Drives You? What Drives You Nuts?
You serve because you want to make a difference.
You don’t mind sacrificing for the cause.
You don’t mind the hard.
But the internal pressure, the struggle to relax, the relational tension,
the difficult behaviors of others…
that is where we come in.
We equip you with skills and tools to manage internal pressures and triggers.
We show you how to manage relational dynamics.
Then we help you do the same for your people.
We give you your first love back. Your passion back.
‘The reason I got into this before all the relational junk got in the way’
How We Can Help:
Imagine Leading with Peace and Purpose Again
- You respond instead of react
- You feel confident, not drained
- Your team is healthier, your impact is greater
- You enjoy the mission again
Trusted by 70,000+ Leaders In 41+ Countries
Capable Life is fundamentally transforming my approach to ministry and to myself. It has helped me notice what’s going on inside of me, tune in to God’s presence with me, identify and turn from false beliefs within me, and actually be present for others—the very essence of my calling. I am a much better pastor because of Steve and his team. I highly recommend you join Capable Life!
Matthew Hoskinson
The Capable Life community has been a great addition to my support system. I look forward to the monthly Zoom meetings, masterclasses, and seeing new video modules pop up in my feed. The greatest asset has been the ability to name the relational dynamics I am facing. This all has added up to a less anxious presence (at least internally).
Ryan Wood
This experience has been life-changing for me! It’s so applicable and speaks right to my heart. I still have so much to learn and I cannot wait!
Amber B
Our staff had an overwhelmingly positive response because Steve shares his own stories, he makes it fun and Steve helps us process the concepts – helping us name sources of anxiety and ways we can identify and manage it.
Marvin Williams
Capable Life is an accessible and practical approach to understanding life and leadership through the lens of family systems. Applying its principles in relationships at home and work will lead to less conflict, healthier relationships, and deeper satisfaction. It has especially helped me lead and manage my organization more effectively in this season of COVID.
Jim Johnson
This content is gold. I go back to the modules again and again — and glean new insights each time.
It helps me be less anxious and more present to my coaching clients.
Sylvia Lawrence
Capable Life has helped me experience the life-changing power of the Gospel in ways that I had previously lead others to sing about (as a worship pastor) but didn’t always experience personally.
The tools and training available have helped me apply God’s Word in my life and it’s been transformative. I live day-to-day closer to Jesus, and in more of His freedom. The result has been more ministry effectiveness but also more life-giving refreshment in Jesus.
James Parker
Want to Try It First?
Each week, you'll get one actionable tip to stay calm, connected, and confident
Join 12,000+ leaders receiving the Weekly Leadership Reset—a short, practical email to help you lower anxiety and lead well
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What is Capable Life About?
Meet Steve
Steve Cuss spent 20+ years leading churches and training mission-driven leaders. He created Capable Life to help you stay grounded in anxious moments and lead with courage and peace
More About SteveWhat Kind of Results Can You Expect?
- Pinpoint who is generating anxiety and who is carrying it.
Help everyone take responsibility.
- Break long standing habits and patterns that wear everyone down.
- Manage your own false needs, triggers, and inner critic that cost you too much.
- Train your body to believe what your head believes and relax into God’s presence.
- Deep connection and presence in the most broken and intense situations.
- Cultivate life-giving habits, increase your laughter and gratitude quotient, get your vocational joy back.
What is the Capable Life Community?
The Capable Life Community is a guided space created by Steve and Lisa Cuss, where you learn clinical, biblical, and practical skills for managing anxiety, pressure, and relational dynamics—at a human-sized pace.
How It Works
Capable Life includes clear, linear learning paths that equip you with core, transferable skills you can use immediately.
- Each course is made up of brief videos (10–15 minutes) designed to fit into real life
- You’ll learn how to notice, name, and diffuse reactivity patterns in yourself and in the people you lead
- Courses include guided journals, milestones to track progress, and clear PDF summaries with key action points
Ongoing Support (Without Pressure)
You’re not meant to do this alone—or all at once.
- Twice-monthly Q&A Zooms Steve, Lisa, and Jimmy
- A weekly member-only reflection, including personal updates from Steve
- A private discussion forum to ask questions and connect with others (no social media required)
Tools to Help You Apply What You’re Learning
Beyond the core courses, you’ll have access to:
- A growing library of application videos, masterclasses, and practical teachings
- An AI tool trained exclusively on Capable Life content that helps you search, reflect, and apply the tools—including timestamped search across the video library
- A global community of leaders you can engage with through Zooms or the forum
Everything is designed to help you practice with less reactivity and greater presence in real life.
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